I wrote this for the person I once was: standing at the edge of this decision, unsure where it was safe to look. It is calm, plain-language, and honest. Inside you’ll find what preparation really means, what the current research says and doesn’t, who should not take this path, how integration actually works, and the questions to ask anyone who offers to support you. It asks nothing of you except honesty with yourself.

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